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1. Who you are now is not who you will be in 10 years. It is okay to be somebody new 10 minutes from now. We are always learning. We are always growing. If you realized 10 seconds ago that you don’t like who you are, shed your skin, retry, replant yourself in good soil.

2. Cleaning is instant therapy. When your brain is muddy, take a shower, wash your hands, change your clothes. Spend 15 minutes straightening your living room. When you are angry, scrub things. I know it’s crazy but it works instantly.

3. Forgive someone’s debt if it’s under 50 dollars, forgive the small things, give a little time to yourself and forgive the big things too. Forgiveness isn’t about the other person, it’s about you. That being said - if someone ever hurts you in a way that would make me cry to know, you get out of there, my love. You just get up and go.

4. Gum karma is real and if you spit out a piece in public expect to find some on your shoe in the future. Same goes for insults and harsh judgement, too.

5. Do what you love and the money will follow.

6. Live your life with an open palm and give as much as you can and as often. At some point in your life, someone will lend you 50 bucks when you’re down on your luck. Remember how that feels. Remember to give that back.

7. Always wear clean underwear. You’ll thank me later.

8. There is a difference between being kind and being passive and there are those who cannot see that difference. They will try to walk all over you. Never bend your knees for those who do.

9. Have faith. Have faith in god or people or yourself or science or in luck or in all of the above. Faith is what keeps us going, faith is what keeps us strong.

10. Pay your bills on time whenever you can, although money is nothing. Remind yourself that.

11. Do not forget you were once ignorant of all you know now. Be patient of anyone who hasn’t had the education you have. Speak at the level of the person you are with - it’s not playing dumb, it’s being considerate. There’s no reason to make them feel uncomfortable. Plus then when someone starts going off about their superior IQ, you can cut them to pieces and watch their face when you do.

12. You are the best person in the room for one particular thing, and that’s confidence. You are the worst person in the room for another thing, and that’s humility. Use both carefully.

13. Never make fun of someone’s beliefs or superstitions, let your kid keep their imaginary friend and let your best buddy believe in knocking on wood. We all have security blankets. Don’t take away someone else’s.

14. Try to learn something new every day.

15. The worse you look, the more likely you are to run into someone you know so instead of feeling awkward, learn to be confident in sweats while talking to your friends.

16. Never go to bed angry, it will ruin your sleep and make tomorrow even harder. Find a way to relax. Don’t let today get to your head.

17. Think before you speak. When someone says something, mull over their words before answering. This is called listening, it is different than hearing.

18. What keeps love beautiful is that there’s risk involved. If he breaks your heart and it doesn’t hurt, it wasn’t love in the first place.

19. Never let someone else determine who you are or how happy. You are too strong to be torn apart.

20. I love you, even when we are fighting, even when I am fast asleep. Don’t doubt it for an instant. You are my everything.

Life lessons my mother has taught me from the side of her hospital bed (part 2/2 of a series) /// r.i.d (via inkskinned)

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She recognized the strange happiness that came from loving something without knowing why you did, that strange happiness that was sometimes so big that it felt like sadness.

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12 am Musings…

There are things I never tell anyone. Not a soul.
Not that I haven’t tried. I did.
More than I could count. But the sad thing is every time I do, I realise that people tend to not understand. They say they do, but their eyes and face says otherwise.

And so I keep these things inside.
All bottled up.
There are times I even forget that I have them.
But from time to time, I come across things —- a photo, a word, a sentence, a phrase, a color, a scent, a feeling —- and it all comes tumbling down. Waking my senses. Sometimes with a mild tug, yet other times with a nerve wracking jolt.

There are some things I never tell a soul, like:

How my heart throbs with a dull ache seeing a picture of a person crying. His face full of anguish and pain that I could almost feel it too.

How my heart feels torn to pieces watching a video of two siblings scavenging the ground for some thrown out bread.

How I wish I could buy everything whatever the old woman on the photo is selling just to spare her the excruciating heat and body numbing tiredness of waiting for her goods to be bought.

How my heart flutters seeing a couple tenderly looking at each other’s eyes —- twinkling, and full of love, and longing.

How nostalgic I feel going through my empty perfume bottles and sniffing the last traces of fragrance, each one reminding me of a certain place in time, a certain moment, a certain person.

You see,…. I feel all these so deeply and so suddenly that at times I could go on for hours feeling nothing but what these things has awakened in me.

I could brood for hours on end savouring their effects on my being. Swept away by the nostalgia, the depths and emotions, layer after layer, shade after shade.

There are things I never tell a soul it’s true.

And though it’s ever changing.
The scenes and thoughts and feelings invariably so,…
There’s just one thing I realised:

That I tend to not tell a soul about all these not for fear of being thought of as weird, or overly dramatic, but the fear of being misunderstood.

Because you see, when a person is understood, he can put up with almost anything. And oh God, how I would like to be understood.

9th April 2014
12:33 am

#musings #nocturnalwanderings #restlessonatuesday

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It would be a devastating thing to break someone’s heart so badly, that they would give up on love. It is a far greater thing to leave someone with the hope of love than with the loss of love. To leave them better than how you found them; is to love them better altogether.
Things that my Heart Whispers (T.B. LaBerge)

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Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart.
Washington Irving (via itsquoted)